Stop Clocking My Uterus

Most black women face society pressure to have babies. When will you have a family, a baby, or add another baby? But they fail to understand the reason behind it all.

Some women go through a lot of complications when it comes to having a baby. It could be infertility, miscarriages, effects of birth controls, or even pregnancy complications like gestational diabetes. Although you might feel you are doing the right thing by asking them why they do not have kids, it is always good to keep your unsolicited advice to yourself and be sensitive.

In today’s episode, I share with you how you can do that. From knowing what women go through in their journey to having a baby, common pregnancy complications, and being sensitive in such situations. This episode has all you need to overcome societal pressure, do what’s best for you, and let the will of God prevail in your life!

Key Highlights

[04:07] Society pressure to have a baby, more babies or no more babies

[04:46] What black women go through when it comes to having a baby

[08:04] Black women maternal mortality

[08:56] Five most common pregnancy complications in black women

[14:37] Being sensitive, sympathetic, and putting yourself in the shoes of those you’re putting pressure on

[16:21] My journey to get pregnant with our third child

[17:27] Effects of birth control on our body and how it plays in your fertility

[20:10] Prayer for anyone desiring for a child

Notable Quotes

You do not know what people are going through. So you have to be very careful with pressuring people.
Having a baby is not as simple as it may sound or as easy as you may think.
Everybody does not want children or to start a family that consists of children. For some people just having one another is efficient for them.
We have to get to a place where we are not worried or so concerned about other people’s lives.
You will never satisfy society. They will always have something to say.
Keep the unsolicited advice to yourself.
Do not let anyone pressure you. Do what is best for you, your marriage, and your family.

Resources

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