We enter into marriage not only to forge a bond with our spouses but also to embrace the role of being a bonus mom or a son or daughter-in-law. However, expectations and communication with our in-laws or bonus kids can sometimes lead to challenges that affect both our kids and our marriages. To restore and strengthen these connections, it is crucial to initiate open lines of communication and truly get to know one another on a personal level. Although it may be extremely difficult, engaging in difficult conversations paves the way for understanding and growth. Building lasting relationships relies on effective communication and the foundation of respect, which holds the power to bridge gaps and foster harmony in our relationships.

Join the conversation with Markisha Williams and Yolanda Agee as they share more about their experiences as a bonus/step mom and with mothers-in-laws. Yolanda is Monique's bonus mother, she's a wife, a mom, and a grandmother who loves her grandbabies. Markisha is Monique’s step-sister and has been on the podcast before. She is a wife and mother of four and enjoys spending time with her family and reading books. Markisha is a real estate agent and teacher who loves traveling and meeting new people.

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During this episode, you will learn about;

[00:01] Intro and a bit about our guests today, Markisha Williams and Yolanda Agee

[02:39] Three words Yolanda and Markisha use to describe themselves as moms

[09:36] Markisha’s marriage and her relationship with her mother-in-law at the beginning

[07:15] How long Yolanda has been a stepmom, and why she prefers the title “bonus mum.” 

[08:26] Yolanda’s expectations before getting into marriage as a bonus mum  

[09:13] Yolanda’s relationship at the beginning with her mother-in-law

[09:56] The biggest challenges in bonus mum and mother-in-law relationships 

[13:07] What Yolanda knows now that she wishes she had known when she first became a bonus mom 

[17:05] Roles spouses have in helping build mother-in-law and bonus mom relationships

[19:35] What happens when one spouse is passive and the other is trying to take over 

[25:25] Markisha’s advice on how to restore a relationship between a mother-in-law and son or daughter in law

[26:50] Yolanda’s advice to a bonus mum who is new to her role or has messed up with her bonus kids

[31:21] Wrap up 

Notable Quotes 

• As step moms, we don't go into marriage for our husbands only but for the kids as well. 
• Restoring relationships starts with communication and getting to know each other at a personal level.
• Sometimes we avoid hard conversations because we don't know which way they will go, but this is the best way to get to know and understand someone.

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